"Free Saki for Moms"

I laughed as I read the small sign in the Japanese restaurant window: "Free Saki for Moms on Mother's Day." Wow - that's it? How about a free meal? Complimentary toys to occupy children? Maybe even a 'mom's only' section in a quiet, clean part of the restaurant?

Apparently the manager didn't ask his mom for ideas.

Mother's Day is a time of great stress at our home. Since our children are only advanced enough to stuff spaghetti in their mouths with both hands, they certainly can't write Mommy a gushing note of gratitude. Daddy has the daunting task of making Mom feel special.

Let me make it simple: celebrate your Mom. I know, that sounds a bit selfish, but hear me out.

Consider all Mom does in an average day to meet the physical, social, emotional, fiscal, recreational, and spiritual needs of her family. Can you name something for each area? What is like when she is gone? What is it like if she is gone?

Do Good - Make a list of the widows and/or single moms you know. Pick a name and buy a gift card. Mail it with a simple "Happy Mother's Day!" note. Consider sending it anonymously. If you know her well, tell her what you admire about her. (Don't worry if it arrives after Mother's Day!!)

If you are looking for the right words feel free to borrow them from an ancient poem found in Proverbs. I found the amplified version, a traditional version, or a contemporary rendering. The opening line is:

"A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman--

who is he who can find her?

She is far more precious than jewels and

her value is far above rubies or pearls."

-Proverbs 31:10

You can have the Free Saki. I'm too busy drinking in all the giggles, tears, story-times, dancing, singing and prayers of young, innocent hearts. If that weren't enough, my husband thanks and encourages me as a woman, wife and mom daily. Thanks, dear ones, for celebrating me. I celebrate you right back!

Lord, thank You for our moms. Teach us how to forgive hurts, cherish the everyday, and be in healthy, vibrant relationships within our families.

Note: If you are without mom or in a strained place with her, please accept my sympathies. Feel free to leave a comment, and I will be in prayer for you.